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If you are a single mom practicing celibacy or are thinking about practicing celibacy you may have some concerns or questions regarding your journey. First off, I am a single mom and I practice celibacy (see my blog here).I also understand that practicing celibacy as a single mom can be difficult because unless you were impregnated by the Holy Spirit, your child is a reminder to everyone that you have had sex before.What that means to other people, especially men, is that it is hard to understand why you want to be celibate now, when you have obviously had sex before AND had a child before.
Whenever you are not having sex, when you are dating, or even if you are in a serious relationship, do NOT put yourself in situations in which it is more likely you will have sex.
This includes staying over each other’s house, sleeping in the same bed, or even taking a shower together.
They pay attention to when you spend the night at your boyfriend’s house, when he spends the night, or if he is sneaking out of the house in the middle of the night after they heard strange noises coming from your bedroom.
In the end, you want to set a good example for your children.
Because if he stays around, know that you are not going to have sex with him until marriage, and still wants to meet your kids; that is a strong indicator he is a keeper.
It will also decrease the chance of a man dating you, trying to sleep with you with no intention of marrying you, meeting your kids, and then leaving never to be seen or heard from again.
That you do not want to have sex because you do not want to be blinded by the sex so much that you overlook the bad qualifies of the guy that you are dating, or you don’t want to have enough child, or because you want to do it God’s way because the doing it the other way did not work for you so far.
So what you have a kid and you had sex before to get that kid?
Just because you may have not done that the first time when you had a child does NOT mean that you cannot do it now.
This is also a good rule for any women who is not having sex. I wrote about this in my how to introduce your boyfriend to your child blog (click here to read).
If I had a girl I would feel the need to set a good example times ten.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating